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Hipoteza t\u00eb paqena<\/p>\n
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Dashuria<\/p>\n
T\u00eb pretendosh se jeton gjendjen e \u201ct\u00eb dashuruarit\u201d m\u00eb tep\u00ebr prej nevoj\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndier e till\u00eb, sesa nga ajri q\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtjell. K\u00ebtu nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pamund\u00ebsi t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb (ti dhe un\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb mbase duke u puthur, edhe pse puthja s\u2019m\u00eb b\u00ebn ta ndal realitetin dhe t\u00eb thellohem n\u00eb veprim) sesa vazhdim\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb asaj gjendjeje t\u00eb dashuruar. Ky bashkim trupash i momentit m\u00eb vjen edhe si nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr fakt i realitetit bosh, mbase i krijuar nga iluzione q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb lidhje me shkak\u00ebsin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb tij sesa duke mbetur thjesht nj\u00eb abstragim. Ende s\u2019e ke kuptuar \u00e7far\u00eb po mundohem t\u00eb t\u00eb them? E pra, ti je atje e un\u00eb jam k\u00ebtu, nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb e vog\u00ebl e mbushur nga shikimi. Dy qenie n\u00eb dy trupa t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, q\u00eb pretendojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb nj\u00eb i vet\u00ebm dhe k\u00ebsaj i kemi v\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb em\u00ebr duke e quajtur dashuri. Por, a e ke pyetur vall\u00eb veten p\u00ebrse dashuria paska ndalur te ne? N\u00ebse k\u00ebt\u00eb do ta merrnim p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rast\u00ebsi fatlume dhe do ta quanim veten me fat, fal\u00eb saj, a nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ky nj\u00eb argument se njeriu ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb pashpjegueshme n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet i mbivler\u00ebsuar dhe i rehatuar me veten e p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar nj\u00eb rrjedh\u00eb, e cila nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se boshll\u00ebk. E n\u00ebse ti m\u00eb thua se dashuria ka mbir\u00eb te ne t\u00eb dy, kjo m\u00eb frik\u00ebson dhe m\u00eb b\u00ebn dyshuese edhe m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. N\u00ebse vjen si rezultat i boshll\u00ebkut t\u00eb qenies sime dhe un\u00eb jam p\u00ebrmbushur te ti, a nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb thelb nj\u00eb hipokrizi dhe ajo ndjenj\u00eb e \u00ebmb\u00ebl, q\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb lidhet me veten, me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn q\u00eb m\u00eb jep prezenca jote? Dhe e gjitha merr kuptim, sepse un\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete marr kuptim p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb qenia ime ende s\u2019mund t\u2019i arrij\u00eb, sepse jam hapa larg nga ti, por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria! Edhe m\u00eb keq do t\u00eb ishte n\u00ebse m\u00eb krijon ti, n\u00ebse me vet\u00ebdije do m\u00eb b\u00ebsh t\u00eb ndihem e p\u00ebrmbushur, diku m\u00eb ke njohur se si m\u00eb funksionon qenia dhe lufton me arm\u00ebt e mia p\u00ebr t\u2019m\u00eb pasur. Por, m\u00eb thuaj, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebr veten e gjitha kjo? Nuk po flas p\u00ebr rrjedh\u00ebn, q\u00eb ti dhe un\u00eb pranojm\u00eb ose jo, p\u00ebr dob\u00ebsit\u00eb e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetjen, respektin, mir\u00ebkuptimin. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb dish t\u00eb sillesh, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb. Un\u00eb po flas p\u00ebr gjenez\u00ebn, si lindi, si u krijua. Mos m\u00eb thuaj q\u00eb dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb akumulim injorance, se n\u00eb thelb s\u2019kuptojm\u00eb \u00e7\u2019duam p\u00ebr veten dhe gjejm\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb di paksa m\u00eb shum\u00eb se ne? E nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb shoh ty p\u00ebrball\u00eb, mbase d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr mua duket si mbivler\u00ebsim i vetvetes p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb diku i dobish\u00ebm, dhe kjo t\u00eb ndjell gjendjen e epshit. Pra, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb njeriu dhe bota, nj\u00eb boshll\u00ebk i mbushur me sfid\u00eb mendimi?! Hipokrizi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hipoteza t\u00eb paqena Dashuria T\u00eb pretendosh se jeton gjendjen e \u201ct\u00eb dashuruarit\u201d m\u00eb tep\u00ebr prej nevoj\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndier e till\u00eb, sesa nga ajri q\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtjell. K\u00ebtu nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pamund\u00ebsi t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb (ti dhe un\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb mbase duke u puthur, edhe pse puthja s\u2019m\u00eb b\u00ebn ta […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1163,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[46],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n